Anonymous asked: .. my mind is all over the place. I just don't feel like he loves me like he use to.. he says one thing now and acts another way. I don't know if I should just end it.. its just hard for me to let go.. i JUST need him and I feel he doesn't need me.. he's neglecting me pretty much when I need him most.. he's not an emotional guy so he's always telling me he can't change that but I want him to try. do you think I should just move on or do you think we are just going through something so I ..
I honestly think you guys are just going through something. Relationships really go through stages mainly because as individuals we go through stages individually so when in a relationship during that, relationships are along for the ride. I say to hang in there. You two have known each other for so long and from what I’m getting, you both love each other a lot. I think he’s going through a stage ATM with losing his sister and cousin and you have to respect his way of dealing with it. But I do think it’s super fustrating and unfair for you to feel unloved and pushed away. My advice is (and this may seem childish but boy does it ever work) to pull back a bit and give him the space he shows he wants. He’s pushing you away so pull back a bit. You’ll see how quickly he moves closer. As I said though, it’s his way of dealing with things. If the whole feeling unloved thing only started after his sister & cousin passing, then most def. Just give him space and let your relationship take this ride. What’s meant to be will always be. Don’t stress too much. Best of luck xoxo